There is a massive difference between active learning and passive “listening.” We all understand what it is like to passively hear something and how vastly different that is than to invest deliberate effort and focused energy into our learning process. People who do the latter are the ones who determine their own future. No matter how excellent a teacher, coach, parent, friend, etc. might be at educating, your learning does not take place properly without your intense focus, effort, passion, and determination.
When you have a challenging situation that requires learning think about the advice from Dr. Jordan Peterson: "If someone you loved were in this situation, what advice would you give him/her?" It is VERY important to give yourself advice, but it’s perfectly Ok to ask for direction, like speaking to a teacher about how to study more effectively, doing research on your challenge, talking to a loved one you trust. (Based on several years of graduate surveys, a common attribute that our recent grads celebrate is their confidence and willingness to interact with college professors. This has enabled them to flourish in their classes and develop meaningful relationships.)
When you have a challenging situation that requires learning think about the advice from Dr. Jordan Peterson: "If someone you loved were in this situation, what advice would you give him/her?" It is VERY important to give yourself advice, but it’s perfectly Ok to ask for direction, like speaking to a teacher about how to study more effectively, doing research on your challenge, talking to a loved one you trust. (Based on several years of graduate surveys, a common attribute that our recent grads celebrate is their confidence and willingness to interact with college professors. This has enabled them to flourish in their classes and develop meaningful relationships.)
- Be careful about thinking you already have ALL the answers. You need to keep your ego in check while you search for solutions. “You cannot learn that which you think you already know.” Epictetus. Ryan Holiday: Ego Is the Enemy Ryan Holiday
- Learning Through Discomfort Are you willing to be uncomfortable?
- Your determination to learn needs to navigate change. Embrace the changes. (Glen Powell: When Plans Change)
- “If you wish to improve, be content to appear clueless or stupid.” Epictetus
- "Success is where preparation and opportunity meet." Bobby Unser
- “No matter how hard you train, Somebody will train harder. No matter how much you want it, Somebody will want it more. I am Somebody!” Steve Prefontaine
- "If you are not willing to learn, no one can help you. If you are determined to learn, no one can stop you." Zig Ziglar
Action Questions:
- How can I approach learning from my challenges with enthusiasm and dedication?
- What steps can I take to seek advice and guidance while also maintaining humility in my learning process?
- How can I balance confidence in my abilities with openness to new ideas and perspectives?